Disagree Better
Meetings and Events
Americans are deeply concerned and exhausted by the hyperpartisanship and polarization in our country, and rightly so. We’ve forgotten how to persuade without hating each other. But our nation’s history shows there’s a better way, and we all need to re-learn how to Disagree Better.
Since launching the Disagree Better initiative last July, National Governors Association Chair Utah Governor Spencer Cox has been traveling around the country to raise awareness — hosting NGA events in New Hampshire, Colorado and Washington DC designed to show that Americans can work through our differences to find solutions to the most difficult problems facing our states and our country.
Disagreeing Better In DC
The nation’s Governors gathered in Washington, DC, on February 22-24, for the 2024 National Governors Association Winter Meeting. Through the Disagree Better Initiative, Governors are joining forces to reduce partisan animosity and foster healthy debate by modeling a more positive and optimistic way of working through policy problems.
Prior to the meeting NGA Chair Utah Governor Spencer Cox led several public forums in DC to speak with thought leaders representing academia, philanthropy, business and government about the good work already happening and the need for more Americans to engage with the initiative to help address toxic polarization in America.
Governor Cox opened the public meeting, on February 23, 2024, with an overview of the Initiative and the importance of reducing toxic polarization.
Judge Thomas Griffith then moderated a plenary session with U.S. Supreme Court Justices Sonia Sotomayor and Amy Coney Barrett, who shared their perspectives on “How to Disagree Agreeably.” Retired Justice Stephen Breyer, reflecting on the session, posted a guest essay on the New York Times: “The Supreme Court I Served On Was Made Up of Friends.”
On Saturday, February 24, Dr. Frank Luntz met with Governors for a discussion on public opinion trends and offers his perspectives on the Disagree Better initiative.
Disagreeing Better In Colorado
NGA Chair Utah Governor Spencer Cox and NGA Vice Chair Colorado Governor Jared Polis hosted the second in a series of bipartisan events in support of Governor Cox’s Disagree Better Initiative in Denver, Colorado on November 14, 2023.
Centered on the theme of teaching youth about healthy conflict and fostering open debate and free expression in higher education, the event featured panel discussions with bipartisan experts; a practical application of those topics through a service project; and a debate facilitated by Braver Angels, a nonprofit dedicated to political depolarization.
Session Readouts & Videos
- Disagree Better Panelists Highlight Ways To Teach Students Of All Ages About Healthy Conflict And Free Expression
- Disagree Better Speakers Explore The Question: What Do Universities Owe Democracy?
- Video: Fireside Chat with Governor Spencer Cox and John Tomasi
- Video: Teaching Youth about Healthy Conflict
- Video: Fostering Open Debate, Free Expression & Viewpoint Diversity in Higher Ed
- Video: Keynote Address by Keith Allred
Disagreeing Better in New Hampshire
On September 12, 2023, National Governors Association Chair Utah Governor Spencer Cox and New Hampshire Governor Chris Sununu welcomed Governors, national experts and students to Manchester, New Hampshire for the first in a series of bipartisan events to help address toxic polarization in America – the aim of Governor Cox’s 2023-24 NGA Chair’s Initiative: Disagree Better. The bipartisan event was also attended by Maine Governor Janet Mills, New Jersey Governor Phil Murphy, Rhode Island Governor Dan McKee and Vermont Governor Phil Scott.
Centered on the theme of Correcting Misperceptions and Highlighting Commonalities, the event featured panel discussions with bipartisan experts leading nationwide efforts to reduce partisan animosity and foster healthy conflict; a debate facilitated by Braver Angels, a nonprofit dedicated to political depolarization; and a service project, “Show Up for Teachers.” Learn more about the Disagree Better initiative below.
Session Readouts
bridging the partisan divide
In a panel discussion held during the NGA Annual Meeting, Governor Cox invited leaders engaged in bridging the partisan divide to share their thoughts.
Moderator Mónica Guzmán, Senior Fellow for Public Practice at Braver Angels, kicked off the discussion by asking panelists to define the problem.
Tim Shriver, Chairman of Special Olympics International and the founder of Unite, identified the issue as “the erosion of trust” and “the rise of contempt as the problem-solving tool of choice.”
“We are kidding ourselves if we treat our opponent with contempt and claim to be about the people’s business,” Shriver continued. “We are no longer about the people’s business; we are no longer about solving problems. We are now about making points that aggrandize and feed our own addiction to safety and security but do nothing to solve the problems of the country.”
Yuval Levin, Director of Social, Cultural, and Constitutional Studies at the American Enterprise Institute, commented: “The problem is not that we’ve forgotten how to agree; the problem is we’ve forgotten how to disagree. The forgetfulness is created by a political culture that encourages us to see the various institutions that we’re all a part of … not as [forums] to get things done together but as platforms for ourselves as individuals.”
See a readout from the session, or watch the discussion below.
Supporters
NGA would like to thank the following organizations for supporting the Disagree Better Initiative
